Alawines, ca. 1902 |
Hard thing for a longtime teacher to admit, but as I get
older, I’m becoming a wuss. It’s really hard for me to go to reunions
where so many people are no longer with us. I am just not strong that way.
One of my family-type memories is of a late-night,
mournful trip up Highway 19 to the house of one of my aunts when my Aunt Bonnie
Fay (Daddy’s younger sister) died unexpectedly. Mother of course was going to
be with Daddy, and she took at least us younger sibs along. The car was very quiet
as Daddy drove.
Years later, when I was at Ole Miss, he called to tell me
his sister Turin (one of the twins) had died. I didn’t know what to say to him.
My roommate, a lawyer-to-be, watched me for some time when the phone call was
over and at last asked, very solemnly, “OK, what’s wrong? I know something’s
wrong.”
…So, a lot of my memories are of people passing on. Four of
my own five brothers are gone; my parents, all the aunts and uncles, most of
their children—my first cousins...being the youngest of that group, I find it
painful to remember the others. And I see time running out on me, too.
I have in my mind pictures of what the reunions were,
and—sorry, cousins—they aren’t the same for me anymore. I don’t feel ashamed of
this. Once, being really sentimental and nostalgic, I told Daddy I could “just
see” all those family members—his, and our own—running around through the woods
at Alawine Springs, playing near the spring itself, and he gave me a tolerant
look and said, “I don’t. All these woods weren’t here. It was fields, all
growing crops.”
Things change.
A few of you have got in touch with me these past two weeks
to ask about who’s in some old pictures, so I’m going to summarize in this post
all the relevant facts about the family again, and then if you want to delve
into other stories beyond just those facts, I’ll steer you to the right
place.
Here’s a chart, prepared by Bill Alewine of Virginia,
showing the lineage from the earliest Alewine/Genewein on record. Notice that
for whatever reason, the earliest documents from 1752 do show “Genewein” or
something like it, sometimes “Genewyn” or “Geneweyr.” By 1786 it was
“Ellwine,” and in 1795 it had become “Ellawine” and finally “Alewine,” in
1800.
https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2019/02/whats-in-name-part-two.html
If you’re interested in figuring out how YOU fit into this, look at these charts, and you’ll see the Wellses, Mercers, Richardses, and others. At the bottom are Samuel Thomas Alawine and Maggie Evalina Skinner, my grandparents.
By 1986 only six came. Front row: Creacie, Ola Mae, Beatrice. Back: Sammy, Bob, Omera |
1977. Front: Sylvia, Pruitt, Creacie, Sammy. Back: Omera, Bob, Beatrice, Ola Mae |
1940's, and below. Grandchildren: Don Smith with Billy Perkins; Bob's sons, including one Agnes is holding; Roosevelt's children |
In-laws: Mildred (Pruitt); Ernest (Ola Mae); Cecile (Bob); Marcus (Bessie); Artie Mae (Roosevelt) |
Sisters, l-r: Ola Mae, Bessie, Bonnie Fay, Beatrice, Omera, Ila Dean |
Brothers, l-r: Roosevelt, Sammy, Pruitt, Bob |
Here are some quick links:
If you’ve heard the Antioch ghost story and want to read a
little more about it, here’s a link to a post telling about it. https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2018/08/normal-0-false-false-false-en-us-x-none.html
If you’ve heard about the Skinners’ carpentry skills, go
here. https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2017/12/the-carpenters.html
If you want to know about how war has affected your own
ancestors who fought, read this. https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2019/09/the-elephant.html
Here’s a place to find out about the Wells line. https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2018/01/normal-0-false-false-false-en-us-x-none.html
My father told me what it was like to go from Kemper to
Meridian back in 1918. Read his story here. https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2018/07/world-changers.html
Some of you have possibly heard about the child who was
shot. Same, about the tale of the man who killed his brother-in-law and
apparently escaped. https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2017/12/normal-0-false-false-false-en-us-x-none_28.html
Times were rough right after the Civil War. Here’s a take on
that. https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2017/12/the-story-behind-faces.html
Skinners, anyone? https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2018/01/the-tree-and-revolution.html
Or maybe, the Mercers? https://allthingsalawine.blogspot.com/2018/01/the-mercer-connection.html
If you want to know MY theory about how we have
absolutely no Native American DNA in us, and yet everybody grew up thinking we
did, read this. http://theadsnotthreads.blogspot.com/2018/08/cant-deny-your-dna.html
Ælfwine
There is a correction: Where the second reunion picture is captioned "1977," it should say "1978."
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